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Updated: Feb 22, 2021

Independence requires a lot from us. We must strive to be our authentic selves outside of everything we know in life.



Daniel opens up about his divorce and how every waking moment of his marriage was dependant upon his husband's happiness.


In this episode, we break down what independence really is.


You can be emotionally dependant.


You can be financially dependant.


You can be dependent in ways you may have never before realized or considered.


But, you can be a functioning, happy, and healthy adult without conditioning your personal sense of being on someone or something else.


Daniel says that co-dependence put him in a state of feeling lost. He was pre-occupied with his relationship. He questioned everything.


Why be like that?


Some people afraid to become independent.


Feeling independent doesn't put you in a place of vulnerability.


Feeling independent puts you in a space of freedom.


I talk about how women put themselves in a position of financial dependence upon their husbands.


This can put women in scary financial situations, especially when their partner leaves, dies, or gets sick.


I share my personal story where a very rich man tried to get me to become financially dependant upon him.


I tell you what happened.



In this episode, remind you that your source of anything in life does not come from any one, place, organization, or location.


We discuss how to re-create yourself, your life, and change your position in life through a psychological state of independence.


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Updated: Feb 22, 2021

Happiness Can't Be Touched



Daniel and Leslie discuss happiness on today's episode on Valuable Insight.


"Happiness: What is it? How to get it? Where to find it?"


In this episode of Valuable Insight, Daniel Beavers shares the story of his secret marriage. This secret marriage that lasted five years led him down a road of loneliness and misery.


By the end of the marriage, Daniel felt that he had lost himself. He was determined to get back on a path of self-love. He realized that his definition of self-sacrifice was draining him of joy.





Learn How To Get Back Your Happiness


This powerful episode is chock full of valuable insight and hard earned wisdom that can help you get back on your path of happiness.


Pay careful attention to today's theme. This episode, as all episodes, build on top of the previous episodes. You'll get more and more insight with every episode you watch. They all tie in together and you'll see what Daniel took away from him time and talks with Leslie.


Episode Introductory Quote: "When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us." - Helen Keller


You don't have to lose yourself in order to love others. Find out how you can love yourself while loving others.

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Updated: Feb 22, 2021


Daniel and I discuss surroundings and the nature of relationships on this episode of Valuable Insight.




Our relationships are a mirror of personal self-concept. What is a self-concept? We talked about that in Episode 1: Enlightenment.


As you evaluate your surroundings, ask yourself a few questions:

  1. Do my close relationships bring the best out of me? Or, do my relationships bring the worst out of me?

  2. What do the relationships I have with others say about what I believe about myself?

  3. Do my relationships fill a void in my life or do they help fulfill my goals and mission?

  4. Do I rely on others for my sense of happiness? Or, do I allow others to rely on me for their sense of happiness?

Allow these questions to open an honest and realistic dialogue. Sometimes, we have to face the lies we tell ourselves. Sometimes, relationships distract us from our goals. Relationships can bring the worst out of us.


Watch this episode of Valuable Insight and let us know what you've learned in the comments.


Memorable quotes from this episode:



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